Fairy Tale Beginning

it’s official y’all.  peachykeen is now spoken for.  a super incredible woman asked me to be her’s and i screamed said, “yes!”  she planned the BEST WEEKEND EVER in which i learned that she’s even more of a planner than i am, thinking of every single tiny detail, and that she really listens!  it is a huge turn-on for me to feel heard. 

we took a short drive to a lovely place where she’d arranged a weekend of laughter, relaxation, horseback riding (my favorite), and a romantic picnic with food (my favorite), wine (my favorite) and chocolate covered strawberries (my favorite).

on the 14th, she had roses and more choc0-berries delivered and the rest of the actual holiday was spent in comfortable bliss =o)

i’m getting reports from the friends and family that everyone had a special holiday weekend.  i’m glad we’re all feeling the love ❤

this sweet peach is on cloud 9. 

and yes, this musical feature is a recent repeat… ’cause i’m singing, ***I CAN BE MYSELF NOW FINALLY!  I WANT THE WORLD TO SEE YOU BE WITH ME!***

(Guest) Blog it Out

i guest blogged over at sex and the southern belle!  now, keep in mind, i typically keep it pg13 over here at sweetpeachykeen but in the spirit of sex and the southern belle‘s fiesty tone, you’ll see another side of your’s truly, peachykeen.  blogger, the mocha peach is an old friend of mine who’s doing big things in the blogosphere and otherwise.  we’ve struggled to keep in touch since high school but hold dear places in each other’s hearts after getting through some of adolescence’s toughest moments together.  so, yes, i know her personally.  but i would most definitely be an avid reader of her blog regardless.  go see for yourself… it rocks! 

at sex and the southern belle, the mocha peach opens her heart, mind and life to share her post-divorce experiences with dating and sex, or lack thereof.  and believe me, we can all relate in some way or another.  with hope and wit, she makes herself vulnerable while keeping it all the way real.  my favorite feature?  her sex toy and porn reviews!!! 

check out my guest post HERE and be sure to subscribe, “like”, comment, become a fan and so forth… at sexandthesouthernbelle.com. 

Whatever You Call It

…i’m feeling it.

i’ve always sucked at dating.  i’m sure we’re all clear on that.

and overseas buddy asked me today if she could take me out on a date when she got back to the states in a few months.  i told her it depended on her intent.  i explained that while i’m still technically single, i’ve become “involved” with someone.  she replied that i am therefore NOT single.  that’s news to me!

i will admit, though, that i do NOT know the difference between “talking to someone,” “dating,” “seeing someone,” “going steady” (do people still say that?) and so forth.  honestly, most of my dealings with women just automatically morphed into a relationship, in the true lesbian fashion.  this whole getting to know people and taking things slowly is brand new.  and i think the main reason people need to know what to call it is because the label determines appropriate actions.  ie, what i’m allowed to go OFF about. 

aren’t you technically single if someone has not specifically asked you to be her girlfriend and to be exclusive? and what if you’ve acknowledged that you are exclusive but have not verbally made a commitment to any relationship?…

i guess there’s no black and white to it.

as long as you’re happy…

and i am!!! =o)

so… there’s been some talk lately of the voodoo witch bitch and how my situations seem to fall apart as soon as i blog about them.  but you know, i’ve decided to reclaim my uncanny resistance of all things negative.  i used to feel untouchable by bad intentions and unfavorable energy.  i’m taking that back.  revisiting that belief and holding it true.

one of my horoscopes from my favorite astrology site gave me this today:

One of the main reasons why it’s important to take the time to go within and know where your heart stands is that it makes it easier to recognise the truth when you hear it. Others can’t plant seeds of doubt or cause you to question yourself if you know your heart and your romantic situation well. When you’re being true to yourself you’ll know at once if something is right or wrong.

so with that, i proudly state my current state of contentment with this dating game.  and regardless of its duration, my outlook will remain positive and the voodoo witch bitch can suck it!

oh, yeah… and celibacy is SOOOOO overrated!  wink, wink…

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